Ok, I’m fucking pissed right now. I got an email earlier this week from findoms.com advertising their new website, toplosers.com - So I go there and check it out to see what it’s all about. I had My suspicions, it struck Me immediately as looking a bit too much like Rate My Pin Dick. I am currently the main admin for RMPD and I LOVE the site, and I love Mistress Mindy who set it up and allows Me to practically run the site.
So I go to submit a loser and read through the terms of submittal. First of all, it looks like the site is going to be free ‘for the first couple weeks’ and then they’re going to start charging to submit pics of losers. So that means that, unlike RMPD which is totally free in every way, this new site is providing nothing while they want Me to PAY to provide the content that will get them traffic. Sure, I would be more than happy to do that, except it also says that you can’t post your websites, just your yahoo ID. Yeah. Not happening. Bitches PAY to get My YIM ID, I don’t give it away for free, and especially not to a site that wants Me to provide them content and PAY to provide them content.
So I wrote off that experience, cuz who the fuck cares, really? Do what you want, I just won’t be involved. No harm, no foul. So then I get this email today from findoms.com saying that unless you participate on top losers or pay to upgrade your account, you won’t be able to use some of the previously-free features on findoms.com - basically Lady K, the owner of findoms & supposedly toplosers, is butthurt that nobody wants to do the work for her and so she’s forcing the members of findoms.com to do it or else they loose the privileges of being on the site.
I replied very nicely to the post, saying the reasons why I didn’t immediately jump into helping out on top losers. Lady K replied with ‘well you’re getting a lot of advertising here for free.’ I didn’t think that was the case, so I went into My personal google analytics account for My website and saw that, indeed, in the past 30 days I had not received even one hit fromfindoms.com - when I replied to the post to that effect, I got a message from Lady K telling Me that My account on findoms would be deleted because I clearly wasn’t getting any traffic. I tried to respond to tell her that’s not what I was implying nor was that what I wanted to happen, but since I haven’t submitted anything to top losers and haven’t paid the upgrade fee for findoms, I couldn’t send her a message. Convenient. Here is a screen shot of the conversation.

And here’s a link to the larger image so that you can read the conversation more clearly: Findoms Bullshit
I told My close friends, Mistress Mindy and Princess Mandy about the bullshit that was going down. When I tried to look more into the websites to see what was going on with them, I found that top losers was no longer working for Me. I thought that the site was down, but when I tried to get to the site using a proxy, it worked fine. That means that Lady K has decided that the offense of calling her out on her bullshit, truthfully and politely, on a private forum where she ASKED for opinions, was an offense worthy of IP banning Me.
When I went back to findoms to try to defend Myself and mention what happened, it turns out that she did not ‘delete’ My profile like she said she would, WITHOUT My permission and WITHOUT Me breaking the rules, I might add. No, instead of just deleting My profile and calling it done, the bitch BANNED Me from the site, as shown by this screen shot:

And here’s another larger version of the image above: Banned from Findoms
Look, I don’t give a flying fuck what any other Domme does or doesn’t do, or how they want to run their business, as long as it doesn’t effect Me. but don’t fucking ASK ME FOR MY OPINION and then BAN Me from your site when I give it to you straight. If you don’t want opinions that differ from your own, get off the fucking internet. And if you plan to ban someone instead of just delete their account, don’t fucking sugar coat it. And, for that matter, if you plan to BAN someone for disagreeing with your bullshit, then why not put it in your website terms of services, that way ALL the members of your site will know what to expect from your totalitarian ’social network.’
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