True Financial Fetish Explained
There have been plenty of discussions about financial servitude, financial domination, money slavery, wallet raping, etc. your Mistress is going to shed some light on the subject and let you in on how it works from the view of a financial fetishist.
I consider a financial Dom/me someone who actually gets sexually aroused by the idea of the sub in question tributing. I must say that this is Me. It took a while to get used to this! Imagine if you will in a capitalistic society finding yourself physically and mentally aroused by the fact that someone is giving you their hard earned money and expecting/receiving nothing in return. I must admit, I felt DIRTY - like there was something wrong with Me.
And I ask some of the subs here - is that any different than how you yourself felt when you first started to explore your kinky and submissive side? Were you not awkward and unsure and even scared or disgusted by your thoughts and desires?
Now that I’ve come to terms with My desires and allowed them to be incorporated into My Mistress lifestyle, I see financial Domination as the ultimate sacrifice. Many of My fetishes require My slaves and submissives to sacrifice their body. Some even require the sacrifice of their minds. But scars heal, memories fade. However, debt and financial issues are always oh so close at hand. To know that My financial slaves make that sacrifice to make Me happy sends shivers down My spine. To see My slaves putting their Mistress before themselves is always a thrill, and it’s the way it should be!
Money will always be power in this capitalistic society. Domme/sub relationships will always be about a power exchange. My subs relinquish their power to Me, their Dominant Mistress, and we both get enjoyment out of it. So it is a natural desire to want to tribute a Mistress, to exchange the symbol of power from yourself to your Goddess. Just as it is a natural desire for Me as the Financial Mistress to crave this servitude.
While many who claim to be financially dominant (often referred to as ‘Insta dommes’) say that there is nothing that the slaves gets in return from financial domination, this is false. As in any other type of fetish Dom/sub relationship, I give My time, My control, My Dominance, My sincerity, and I allow My financial slaves just a glimpse into My world. For that I, and My financial slaves, feel that there is no possible way that they could pay Me back. No matter how many gifts or tributes they send, no matter how many jobs they get, they could never make a dent in their debt to their Goddess.
My financial slaves love to give Me tribute. I have several serving Me right now, and they literally beg Me to allow them to tribute. They seem just as awkward as I did 4 years ago. They ask ‘is it ok if I tribute you?’ as if they would offend Me. I have to explain to them that it is a fetish for Me as well, and we both get off on it together.
The more experienced ones tell Me why they tribute. First of all, they know that I am deserving as their Mistress. They want Me to live the life of the Goddess that I am. They know that the purpose of a slave, financial or otherwise, is to make the life of their Mistress easier and more enjoyable. Even though I do not NEED the tributes, gifts, money, etc, they know that it makes Me happy, and that is the goal of My financial slaves. They want just for a moment for the smile on My face to be because of something that they did correctly.
I do hope that this puts it a bit more into perspective for those here who don’t quite understand what’s going on in a financial D/s relationship.
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I have been getting at least 5 IMs a day from whining slaves asking Me when I will have My computer back up and running so that I can do webcam sessions via skype and YIM again. Well, the answer is - TONIGHT! I’m typing on it right now and I’m just about to download YIM and skype so that we can have our fun fetish webcam sessions! I know some of you have been waiting since Halloween when My hard drive died, so now’s your chance! First come first serve, as always. If you catch Me while I’m already on a cam session, be polite. Don’t send Me 50 IMs asking when I’ll be done - I’ll be done when I’m done. Don’t send Me a bunch of requests to view My cam - I’ll just ignore you.


That’s not to say that My other blackmail slaves are without fault - That’s not to say that My other blackmail slaves are without fault, far from it in fact! Wolf is quite a whiny baby when it comes to sticking to his contract. he has, so far, paid all of his blackmail tributes, but insists on begging every time for Me to release him from his contract. First he lost his job, then his father passed away, blah blah blah. his excuses never cease! Of course, he still begs to buy a pair of “Mama’s” panties every time we talk… lol
austin tried to back out, too, of course. he was My ebay slave for a while - whatever he sold on ebay, the money went directly into My account. It was a wonderful arrangement - until he decided I was too serious for him and backed out! he didn’t like the $100 fine I sent him for reneging on our deal, and he sold a few things for Me just this evening, lol. he knows that the only way to stay in My good graces is to keep Me happy and make up for bad behavior.
As many of you know, Halloween is your Mistress’ favorite holiday. Unfortunately, this year was a bit sub par. I was supposed to go to a few parties, but all of My friends bailed on Me! Then, to add insult to injury, I tried to log on to do some sessions with some of you who I know have been waiting patiently for the last few weeks and My fucking laptop’s hard drive is fried! Lucky your Mistress is such a genius and backed everything up on My server, but it’s still a fucking pain the ass to replace it! Now I’m stuck with using My boyfriend’s home computer and it sucks!
I’ve been doing a lot of rennovating of old ideas and old PTV and payment request mails, so I think it’s only fair that I upgrade one My favorite things - blackmail fetish play. I absolutely love being a blackmail Mistress! There is pretty much nothing better than having a blackmail slave fill out My contract and give Me all of his blackmail information!