True Financial Fetish Explained

Posted by Mistress Kiara | financial domination | Thursday 19 August 2010 1:36 pm

There have been plenty of discussions about financial servitude, financial domination, money slavery, wallet raping, etc. your Mistress is going to shed some light on the subject and let you in on how it works from the view of a financial fetishist.

I consider a financial Dom/me someone who actually gets sexually aroused by the idea of the sub in question tributing. I must say that this is Me. It took a while to get used to this! Imagine if you will in a capitalistic society finding yourself physically and mentally aroused by the fact that someone is giving you their hard earned money and expecting/receiving nothing in return. I must admit, I felt DIRTY - like there was something wrong with Me.

And I ask some of the subs here - is that any different than how you yourself felt when you first started to explore your kinky and submissive side? Were you not awkward and unsure and even scared or disgusted by your thoughts and desires?

Now that I’ve come to terms with My desires and allowed them to be incorporated into My Mistress lifestyle, I see financial Domination as the ultimate sacrifice. Many of My fetishes require My slaves and submissives to sacrifice their body. Some even require the sacrifice of their minds. But scars heal, memories fade. However, debt and financial issues are always oh so close at hand. To know that My financial slaves make that sacrifice to make Me happy sends shivers down My spine. To see My slaves putting their Mistress before themselves is always a thrill, and it’s the way it should be!

Money will always be power in this capitalistic society. Domme/sub relationships will always be about a power exchange. My subs relinquish their power to Me, their Dominant Mistress, and we both get enjoyment out of it. So it is a natural desire to want to tribute a Mistress, to exchange the symbol of power from yourself to your Goddess. Just as it is a natural desire for Me as the Financial Mistress to crave this servitude.

While many who claim to be financially dominant (often referred to as ‘Insta dommes’) say that there is nothing that the slaves gets in return from financial domination, this is false. As in any other type of fetish Dom/sub relationship, I give My time, My control, My Dominance, My sincerity, and I allow My financial slaves just a glimpse into My world. For that I, and My financial slaves, feel that there is no possible way that they could pay Me back. No matter how many gifts or tributes they send, no matter how many jobs they get, they could never make a dent in their debt to their Goddess.

My financial slaves love to give Me tribute. I have several serving Me right now, and they literally beg Me to allow them to tribute. They seem just as awkward as I did 4 years ago. They ask ‘is it ok if I tribute you?’ as if they would offend Me. I have to explain to them that it is a fetish for Me as well, and we both get off on it together.

The more experienced ones tell Me why they tribute. First of all, they know that I am deserving as their Mistress. They want Me to live the life of the Goddess that I am. They know that the purpose of a slave, financial or otherwise, is to make the life of their Mistress easier and more enjoyable. Even though I do not NEED the tributes, gifts, money, etc, they know that it makes Me happy, and that is the goal of My financial slaves. They want just for a moment for the smile on My face to be because of something that they did correctly.

I do hope that this puts it a bit more into perspective for those here who don’t quite understand what’s going on in a financial D/s relationship.

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Mistress Kiara’s Birthday is Coming up…

Posted by Mistress Kiara | assignments, financial domination, specials, updates | Wednesday 7 April 2010 1:02 am

My birthday is April 20th and I will be a glorious 23 years young. It is also the anniversary of the day that I officially professionally dominated My first slave, piglet. Those of you who have been with Me for these past 5 years know that I enjoy My birthday greatly and expect you to do the same.

That means that the losers who buy Me gifts get a free picture of Me with the gift they send! Aren’t I generous? you should be grovelling…

To My pay piggies reading this - this is the month that you will go hungry, eating peanut butter and jelly every day so that I can have the birthday I deserve - on your dime of course! As always, accepting payments via ppal, amazon gc, and credit card.

I will be happy to book plenty of sessions before and after, and I’ll also have a special Birthday video assignment for My pets to purchase so that they can celebrate with Me. As always, contact Me on yahoo or AOL messenger as DominaKiara to schedule an amazing femdom session that you won’t forget…

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Holiday Madness!

Posted by Mistress Kiara | Auctions, blackmail, financial domination, updates | Monday 28 December 2009 8:44 pm

As many of My close slaves know, holidays are always hectic for Me. Well I just got done with all the hustle and bustle of Yule and I’m ready for the new year! I signed on to instant messenger today for the first time since before the holiday season and I had 3 sessions just tonight! I am planning to be online as often as I can - every night if possible - to book more exciting and totally amusing fetish sessions with My pets!

Tonight I had one slave spend over $200 in sessions just letting his Mistress outsmart him (while he was drunk of course!) into signing a blackmail contract. He had planned to go to bed, but once he bought his first 20 minute session and saw his beautiful Goddess in a leather corset, gloves, and boots, he had to empty his meager savings to make Me happy.

Then a new slave who had been waiting to serve for quite some time bought a 40 minute cam session, further inflating My Amazon gift card account. I bought My sexy boyfriend a birthday and a Christmas present and still have hundreds for My greedy self lol!

I’ve got a nasty pair of panties that I’ve been wearing for a couple days now that will be up for auction in the next day or two - I bet you little panty sniffers can’t wait! They’re cute and plaid and will come with a few pictures of Me wearing them in sexy poses. For now I’ve got to go - another session in the works!

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Webcam is back up and running!

Posted by Mistress Kiara | specials, updates | Wednesday 11 November 2009 8:55 pm

I have been getting at least 5 IMs a day from whining slaves asking Me when I will have My computer back up and running so that I can do webcam sessions via skype and YIM again. Well, the answer is - TONIGHT! I’m typing on it right now and I’m just about to download YIM and skype so that we can have our fun fetish webcam sessions! I know some of you have been waiting since Halloween when My hard drive died, so now’s your chance! First come first serve, as always. If you catch Me while I’m already on a cam session, be polite. Don’t send Me 50 IMs asking when I’ll be done - I’ll be done when I’m done. Don’t send Me a bunch of requests to view My cam - I’ll just ignore you.

I also wanted to post a public thanks to slave jeff who bought the hard drive for Me from My wish list. he will be getting a free 30 minute cam session for his efforts. The offer still stands - Whoever gets Me the laptop on My wish list will receive both a 2 hour cam session and also a free custom fetish video or photo set of Me - you pick the outfit and fetish content.

So what are you waiting for? 2 great ways to serve Me are back - And I’ve missed seeing your hilarious antics on cam! YIM/Skype ID: DominaKiara

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Sissy cuckold for Mistress

Posted by Mistress Kiara | Forced bi, cuckolds, feminization, financial domination, humiliation, hypnosis, losers, tiny dick | Monday 9 November 2009 9:47 pm

Just wanted to post about how happy I am with My little French sissy cuck slut! he has just completed assignment one of My sissy brainwashing assignment program and is on to assignment 2! Read about his adventures being sissified and made to wear panties by Me in his cuck slut blog.

Of course, since he found Me from a financial slavery site, he enjoys tributing his Mistress. he tells Me it makes his tiny little dick hard, which gives Me a good laugh! he’s only 4 inches, LOL! How pathetic! My boyfriend’s monster is 9, that’s more than twice what that little dick is!

My cuckold slut loves hypnosis and can’t wait until he can be hypnotized by Me on NF. Since he’s in France and NF is “no longer helping international customers,” he’s going to have to do a skype session with Me. I can’t wait to put more triggers in his brain to make him even weaker for Me!

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Rules are rules, especially for blackmail slaves

Posted by Mistress Kiara | Uncategorized | Tuesday 3 November 2009 10:20 pm

I realize that I never really give updates on My blackmail losers. They just get shuffled back into older and older posts as I do new posts about My other fetishes. Well, I don’t want them to feel like they’re off the hook - far from it! These boys are on My website and they are here to stay until they do something about it! And let Me tell you - WHINING and crying  over your own fucking stupidity is not the answer.

This loser in these MANY many pictures is not following the very simple rules that go along with being My blackmail bitch. Besides the fact that he never contact Me, he thinks that I should always remember him because his pictures are on My site. I guess he doesn’t realize that he is small potatoes compared to My blackmail slaves who actually follow the rules and pay Me regularly!

So when he asks Me for favors, of COURSE I’m going to turn him down! And NOBODY who doesn’t deserve it receives mercy from this blackmail Mistress! he begs Me EVERY time he contacts Me to take down his blackmail pictures for free - what bullshit! Then he continually whines about how I never remember him. Well guess what loser? I have no problems remembering austin, wolf, or sissy nicole - they pay Me every week, on time!

That’s not to say that My other blackmail slaves are without fault - That’s not to say that My other blackmail slaves are without fault, far from it in fact! Wolf is quite a whiny baby when it comes to sticking to his contract. he has, so far, paid all of his blackmail tributes, but insists on begging every time for Me to release him from his contract. First he lost his job, then his father passed away, blah blah blah. his excuses never cease! Of course, he still begs to buy a pair of “Mama’s” panties every time we talk… lol

austin tried to back out, too, of course. he was My ebay slave for a while - whatever he sold on ebay, the money went directly into My account. It was a wonderful arrangement - until he decided I was too serious for him and backed out! he didn’t like the $100 fine I sent him for reneging on our deal, and he sold a few things for Me just this evening, lol. he knows that the only way to stay in My good graces is to keep Me happy and make up for bad behavior.

The point is, I am really an understanding blackmail Mistress when I want to be. I only charge $50 for the removal of each pic if the only offense is failing to comply with the blackmail contract. And many of My blackmail slaves beg Me to keep them in My stable after the initial 4 month trial period is up. Many of My blackmail salves LOVE serving their Mistress, and those are the ones I remember. Those are the ones that I enjoy having in My stable and want to keep around.

If you want to be one of My good little blackmail sluts whose goal in life it is to keep his Mistress happy, then click the button to the right. If you have NiteFlirt, it will send a contract to your NF email (payment request so you can read without tribute).

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Halloween

Posted by Mistress Kiara | Uncategorized, financial domination, updates | Sunday 1 November 2009 10:38 am

As many of you know, Halloween is your Mistress’ favorite holiday. Unfortunately, this year was a bit sub par. I was supposed to go to a few parties, but all of My friends bailed on Me! Then, to add insult to injury, I tried to log on to do some sessions with some of you who I know have been waiting patiently for the last few weeks and My fucking laptop’s hard drive is fried! Lucky your Mistress is such a genius and backed everything up on My server, but it’s still a fucking pain the ass to replace it! Now I’m stuck with using My boyfriend’s home computer and it sucks!

What I’m most upset about I think is the photo shoot and video that I was going to upload being lost. I mean, My photographer said he’d redo them both (he just loves looking at your Mistress lol!) but I had so many great pics of Me in My Halloween costume, and the new movie for youtube that some of you have been waiting for for months now was almost done being edited!

Then I started thinking - My old laptop sucks anyway! It was one of the first little netbooks to have come out - I got it from a financial slave for Christmas a few years ago and it’s just simply outdated. I mean, it doesn’t even have Vista yet! So I started surfing around on Amazon and I found two ways that you boys can please your Mistress - and isn’t that what this is all about? Really?

First, I want to keep the little outdated notebook. It’s cute and portable, and I need a place to backup My information each day in case this happens again! But it’s so TINY that I can barely see what’s going on with that little screen - so I want a bigger, newer, more up to date laptop that is far less likely to fry! So I added both a new hard drive for the notebook and a new laptop to My wish list.

Here’s the deal - you make Mistress happy because serving Me makes you happy. And to make you even more happy about serving Me, I’m going to throw in this: whoever buys Me the hard drive for My notebook gets a free 30 minute cam session. Whoever gets Me the laptop will not only get a free 2 hour cam session, but you’ll also get a free video or photo set of Me - you pick the outfit and fetish content! What are you waiting for, piggy? Get shopping and make Mistress happy!

Mistress Kiara’s Wish list

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Blackmail Policy Changes

Posted by Mistress Kiara | blackmail, financial domination, updates | Thursday 29 October 2009 11:45 pm

I’ve been doing a lot of rennovating of old ideas and old PTV and payment request mails, so I think it’s only fair that I upgrade one My favorite things - blackmail fetish play. I absolutely love being a blackmail Mistress! There is pretty much nothing better than having a blackmail slave fill out My contract and give Me all of his blackmail information!

Well, I have gotten so much better at being a blackmail Mistress over the years - practice makes perfect you know! - and I realize that My blackmail contract has never been updated or changed! I just had the same 4 levels of blackmail contracts - from the pussy to the hardcore! Well, I say it’s time for a change! I have made one simple, easy to follow blackmail contract that you can read using the button below. It is, as always, a payment request, so I encourage you to click on it and read it through before committing fully.

Committing to a blackmail Mistress can be a big decision, and I want to be here to answer any questions My scared little losers have. Send Me an email, either on NiteFlirt or to dominakiara@gmail.com and I will be happy to assist you in filling out your contract and committing yourself to Me…

If you don’t want to use NiteFlirt as a payment processor, send Me an email or an instant message and we can discuss what other forms of payment are available. I can send the blackmail contract directly to your email address for you to read through.

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Mistress Kiara has skype now!

Posted by Mistress Kiara | financial domination, updates | Monday 26 October 2009 5:35 pm

money MistressI have had so many requests for using Skype instead of YIM for our fetish webcam sessions that I finally decided to get Myself the software and a screen name. I have already used it on a couple sessions and it is a lot better than YIM! I can also offer femdom texting sessions and fetish phone sex since I have a mic now. My screen name is DominaKiara - but remember to buy a session by visiting My femdom sessions page. I’ve done a little price editing becaus I’m trying to save for a house for Myself. Unfortunately, Amazon gift cards can’t be used to buy Me a house, so there is a $5.00 upcharge if you want to pay for your fetish session using amazon gift cards. Well, I’m off to go eat dinner and then go weight lift agian. Add Me on Skype - this saving money thing is really getting Me irritable and I need to take out some of this pent up aggression on you losers! Plus I’m dying My hair again tomorrow for Halloween, so keep your eyes on My blog for updates on the coming video and another fetish photo shoot!

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Changes…

Posted by Mistress Kiara | Uncategorized | Wednesday 5 August 2009 12:29 pm

Hello there boys! I know it’s been a while, but I was in the middle of trying to move into a new house. Still in the market for a new place, though - the one I was looking at is swimming in black mold - ugh! I’ve got a new house I’m looking at now, and that means all you pay piggies are going to have to tighten your belts and loosen your wallets!

There are some big changes still to come. I want input from you all on what you’d enjoy seeing on My website. I have a wonderful webslave who is still working on creating My new femdom fetish website and adding all sorts of new fetish pictures, femdom videos, and much more! I can’t wait until it’s done, and I know some of you bois are getting stiffies in your panties just thinking about it!

The biggest change in My life besides finding a new house is My new boyfriend. I was single for a while, but I’ve been going to fetish clubs and bars almost every night and I’ve finally found a new man worthy of Me. He is very strong and more manly than most of you little pussies out there could ever hope to be! Of course he’s hung like a real man, too… I can’t wait to get some good pictures of us to post for you to drool over, lol!

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