FAQs/Interview
Q. How can I start real blackmail with You right now!?
A. This Page explains how to do it.
Q. How should I address You?
A. Mistress, Goddess, or Queen – all are fitting and acceptable.
Q. How do you address your submissives?
A. I prefer terms like ‘puppet’ and ‘pet’ when referring to My submissives. While many are into the humiliation that terms such as ‘loser’ and ‘pig’ provide, I also have MANY subs who aren’t losers at all. They have high class jobs and are well respected in their every day life, they just happen to find submitting to a Perfect Woman financially very enjoyable ;3
Q. What type of fetish sessions do you offer?
A. Phone, webcam with My VTuber model, and instant messaging/texting, as well as real time out-call sessions in the Ann Arbor area of Michigan.
Q. Why haven’t you responded to My email?
A. There are several reasons emails go unanswered by Me. I don’t require tribute up front, for just discussing things, but if you are jumping right into fetish discussion then I will usually just respond back with information on how you can tribute for your session. The only emails I outright ignore are those from known time wasters or those asking for things I don’t do (blood, scat, needles anything illegal).
Q. Can I order a naked clip/session with you?
A. No. My subs are never worthy of seeing My perfect body. I’m a Domme, not a stripper. Nothing against those that show their bodies for cash, but that’s not something I offer unless you’re willing to pay exorbitant prices.
Q. Can I get unblocked by you if I was blocked for time wasting or being rude?
A. Yes. Send a $100 amazon gift card (in USD ONLY) to My email – dominakiara (at) gmail.com and tell Me your screen name in the message section and I will unblock you. *NOTE* This does NOT preclude you from being blocked again should you break the rules a second time, and each subsequent rule breaking causes the amount owed for unblocking to double.
Q: I want to get to know you (where you were born, life goals, ambitions, etc):
A: Born in Mt. Clemens Michigan and raised in Shelby Twp. Both are suburbs of Detroit. I graduated from college in Clinton Twp. and then moved to Ann Arbor where I currently reside. If I continue with school, it will be to get both a master in Psychology as well as to become a nurse practitioner so that I can both council and prescribe as needed for My patients. Currently, though, My goal is to just be the best Domme I can be. The best way to get to know Me better is through serving Me.
Q. What are your favorite fetishes?
A. I enjoy many fetishes, but My favorites would have to be sissification, humiliation, blackmail, and financial domination.
Q. Besides owning submissive men, what are your hobbies?
A. I love being active. Currently, I am training Brazillian Jiu Jitsu submission grappling. I’m the only woman in My gym, which is great! I love being the only female there submitting all the men LOL!
Q. What is your favorite Book
A. Kiss My Tiara: How to Rule the World as a SmartMouth Goddes by Susan Jane Gilman
Q. Do you smoke?
A. Not cigarettes, mj only
Q. Do you like to make your slaves cry?
A. Yes, when I’m in the proper mood to and if it’s not one of their hard limits.
Q. How long have you been a Mistress?
A. Since 2005
Q. Are you active on social media?
A. Mostly just Bluesky at the moment – DominaKiara
Q. How did you get into becoming a dominatrix/model?
A. I had always had a Dominant personality, but My first year of college (2005), a friend said she was getting into phone sex and would I like to join her? I talked to the company head about it and said “that’s not really My thing, but what about Domination phone sex?” and it all went from there… I learned more about the different things I enjoyed, the names of the fetishes that I had enjoyed privately but never knew what to call. My porn collection exploded when I learned what keywords to search for lol – it was such a wonderful, eye opening experience!
But then I got greedy… I saw the amount of money the company was making off of Me and I said “Fuck that!” I bought a domain name and started My own business where I control everything, do all the advertising, make all the content and do all the sessions Myself, and (most importantly) keep all the money I make.
Q. What is it that makes you different from other dominatrix?
A: The fact that I’ve been here almost since the very beginning of internet domination, for one. I was also one of the very first goth/punk/alternative dommes. There’s also the fact that I tease with My body, but I never fully put it on display. I’ve seen a lot of new girls who jump right in with tits and ass and pussy pics and clips, and that’s fine if that’s what you’re into. But I feel that My slaves will never truly be worthy to see that much of Me. They will long for what they cannot have or even gaze upon in any way. They will beg and plead and love it when I tell them that they are not and never will be worthy.
But the real answer is that any Domme is different, if you take the time to get to know Her. We are all individual people with our individual like, strengths, limits, and weaknesses. So book a session and get to know Me, see what’s different for yourself.
Q. What do you like to do in your spare time?
A. I’m an avid video gamer and streamer with My Vtuber model. I prefer survival horror and sandbox style games mostly. I also do a lot of judo, Brazilian jiujitsu, and a bit of art for fun. I do tight lacing and corset training on both Myself and My slaves, particularly My sissies. I love baking, especially for those I care about, and I love almost any form of arts and crafts that I’ve tried.
I also love astronomy and have the entire Northern hemisphere of constellations tattooed on My right arm. It and the orion nebula tattoo I have on my left thigh are 2 of my favorite tattoos. I also enjoy music and love to sing. I have a piece of music from a friend who worked at the Renaissance Festival as a bard tattooed on My right thigh as well.
Q. Do you have a favorite movie?
A. My favorite movie is ever-changing, but some I love are Grave Encounters, They Live, Cool World, and Thir13en Ghosts
Q. Do you get physically turned on from your fetishes?
A. Of course! Otherwise, they wouldn’t be fetishes.
Q. Are you currently seeking slaves?
A. Always!
Q. How do I know you’re really who you say you are?
A. First off, I’ve been doing this since 2005, and 99% of the slaves who’ve asked Me this were just time wasters. For the 1% of you who has been duped by someone claiming to be a Mistress in the past who was either a guy playing games or using fake pics, I want to sincerely apologize. This scene has gotten swamped with fakes in both the Domme and sub world. I am on many different sites which cam verify every member of their Mistress community, including Findoms.com.
If you’re looking for a “verification” photo, check out the hundreds across all of My sites.
