I’ve been feeling super motivated lately, so I figured I’d do a quick blog update about this week’s biggest losers. I’m PMSing, though, so I’m only going to do Paypal. I, of course, still accept tributes and payments for femdom sessions via Amazon GC, Niteflirt, IWantClips, Clips4Sale, Clipvia, Kinkbomb, and the occasional Western Union money transfer, but if I compiled all the financial domination slave tributes I’ve received from across all avenues that I accept tributes I’d be here until NEXT week! But, since paypal is My preferred tribute option, I figured I’d just stick with that.
And the winner is…. M.A.! More likely known to you as Michael Ammos, the tranny sucking blackmail fetish sub from earlier this week. However, right on his heels is L.A. – better known as My big douche pay porker with a tiny cock who sucks tranny cock LOL~! But that’s a mouthful, so I just like to call him douchester.
So there you have it – those are this week’s biggest losers via paypal. If you want to see yourself featured here, Serve Perfection. Otherwise, move along! I don’t have time for subs who don’t tribute – clearly. However, if you want to serve the hottest Goth Goddess on the net, you know where to find Me…
So first of all, let Me start by saying a couple things. I’ve been around the Domination scene for about 10 years now. I’ve done online, cam, clips, phone, IM, and real time. I’ve done fetish and femdom and financial and everything in between. I had never heard of this book before last night in the chatroom at Findoms.com when a new girl came into the room after just having been cam verified. This girl said, “I’ve just finished reading Greedy and I’m ready to take money from men!” She stayed around for a bit, asking some rather amateurish questions, (Do you ladies have any slaves? What is the best way to start, etc), but I didn’t think much of it. Everybody starts somewhere, right? But she just kept pushing that point “How do I get slaves? How do I start taking money from men now?” and not listening to the good information given to her by the veterans in the chatroom. Basically what I’m saying here is that she came off sounding like an instadomme who didn’t give a shit for the fetish of financial domination, wanted a quick buck, and would burn out as soon as she learned that this was NOT a ‘get rich quick scam.’
So I got curious and looked at some of the Amazon reviews for this book. Many were positive, but some were very negative, and it’s the negative ones which caught my eye. The reviews said that this book made some seriously false claims about the BDSM community, and Pro Dommes in particular. Being a Pro Domme Myself, I was a bit offended… It got me thinking – is this REALLY how we want to represent our fetish (which is already not taken seriously) to new girls trying to get involved? I started looking into the author then, a Mistress that I had never heard of who goes by the name of Madam Sossette. She lists on her website that she has nearly 10 years experience in the BDSM world and has ‘worked with submissives on an international level.’ Her website looks rather childish (and I’m not throwing stones here! There are rainbows and sock puppets (No, really SOCK PUPPETS!) and not much else – not even any pictures of the author/Mistress in question here) but she uses the word ‘puppets’ to describe her subs, which is a term I enjoy as well. Not being someone to sweat the $5 on Amazon (especially with the wealth of gift cards I’ve been getting lately), I bought the book.
The ‘book’ was a (very short) 59 pages. I finished it in less than an hour. First thing I notice is that it’s from 2013 and that it says ‘first edition,’ so it might be a little out of date. But hey, I’ve been doing this since 2005 and I know as well as any of you that things come and go easily in this world. Chapter 1 was basically the credits and thank-yous. Chapter 2 was where the real meat-and-potatoes started. Right away, I could tell that something was amiss with My initial feelings toward the book…
This woman knows what She’s talking about. Plain and simple. From chapter 2’s intro, it is clear that she knows what’s up in the world of both private and professional BDSM. Yes, she mentions professional Dommes who she knows have slept with their clients. She also mentions that the number of times she has witnessed that can be displayed on one hand. She discusses rinsing immediately and the ‘pay cuz I’m cute’ style ‘findoms’ which have cropped up in recent years. She discusses finding your own niche and exploiting it, rather than trying to be a ‘Queen-of-all-trades,’ to coin a phrase, which is a pitfall I see many new girls fall into. She even disucsses (Heaven forbid!) budgeting with your slaves so that their relationships can continue to flourish with you instead of being completely drained and then left to rot. And then (most importantly, in My view) she discusses the high… That wonderful feeling of elation, the rush that getting a tribute gives the MISTRESS. Not the boner it gives the puppet. But the surge of pleasure it gives the Ones that matter MOST in this relationship – the Dommes.
Chapter 3 discusses the big 3 – Safe, Sane and Consensual, Risck Awareness Consensual Kink, and Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink. Obviously the first 2 aren’t used too much in the online scene – it’s that third one that I feel the boys who ‘risk it all’ with findom refuse to acknowledge. Yes, your actions have consequences. You need only look through a few of My blog posts to see that… She wins My heart with talking of the risks of shibari (My favorite form of bondage), of knowing how far you are able to take YOURSELF and YOUR OWN SKILLSET, not just your partner’s hard limits. She tells you about headspace, about not working when you feel like shit. Yes, I know it’s customary to see “I’m having a bad day so TRIBUTE ME!” but that is not the same as going “I’m having a bad day so I’m going to try to make My subby insert something too big in his ass so he rips it just because I know he would do it for Me.” Furthermore, she flips to the other side of the coin and tells of the responsibility We Dommes have of telling our SUBS “no” when THEY are in the wrong headspace and wanting to take play too far. She discusses how dangerous things like forced intoxication can be when they are done without first knowing what you are doing and then secondly preparing a contingency plan for if/when things go poorly. She brings up safe words of varying intensity, limits (both hard and soft), and then tells you the potential repercussions of ignoring such things…
Chapter 4 brings it into the here-and-now with ‘where do you go as a newbie Findom?’ She addresses the sock puppet thing. It’s glorious. I love it and I accept it completely. Please be my friend, Mistress Sossette? You are a genius. PS: I’m skipping the ‘summary’ part of this chapter because you need to read her book. Seriously. Chapter 5 discusses payment processors other than paypal, about how Amazon GC are NOT ALWAYS THE BEST, and even a little bit about taxes. Chapter 6 discusses the scammers (you freaks know who you are…) and time wasters (yes, you too…) and how to avoid them. There is information on where to promote to get yourself out there in the beginning, and even how to manage your social media profiles.
All in all, I think this book needs to be read by all the new girls. There wasn’t much information that was new to Me personally, but I know that it would cut down on the many mistakes I see on new profiles, or even profiles of Dommes who have a few years under their belts. There was only one part that I personally disagreed with, and that was in the “Stupid Questions” section about blackmail. Consensual blackmail, in my opinion, is an understood fantasy-based fetish that can be enjoyed between two consenting adults. That is all I will say on the matter.
All in all, I think this book needs to be read by all the new girls. There wasn’t much information that was new to Me personally, but I know that it would cut down on the many mistakes I see on new profiles, or even profiles of Dommes who have a few years under their belts. There was only one part that I personally disagreed with, and that was in the “Stupid Questions” section about blackmail. Consensual blackmail, in my opinion, is an understood fantasy-based fetish that can be enjoyed between two consenting adults. That is all I will say on the matter.
Anyway, that’s really all I have to say about the book. (Only 6 paragraphs? That’s all? What is this, a book report?) It was great and it is a must-read for the new Girls on the scene in My opinion. And it was written by a sock puppet ;3 And while we’re on the subject of GREED, I did some checking up on my traffic stats last night. Greedy Goddesses is still pulling in quite a bit, so I’ve decided to revive it, with this being the first new post there. I have a sub in charge of updating it daily, and I’m planning to set it up so that Dommes can write/add Their own content if they wish.
Meet michael ammons, blackmail loser extraordinaire…
Full Name: Michael Ammons
Age: 45
Married?: yes
Faithful: *REMOVED for a $20 Tribute*
Sex (How often? good/bad): *REMOVED for a $20 Tribute*
Kinkiest fantasy: *REMOVED for a $20 Tribute*
Pets?: *REMOVED for a $20 Tribute*
Car you drive (make, model, year): ford explorer 1999
E-mail: michael_4222@yahoo.com or m_and_t99@yahoo.com
Yearly Income (approx): 20,000
Cell Phone Number: 724-413-6818
Come on, did you REALLY think you could get away with NOT paying Me, being a disrespectful little shit, and then have Me NOT post all of this? Get a grip, freak…
This is michael ammons. This loser has been serving Me for a few weeks now. Things started out well, as they always do. he started by buying things from Me on Niteflirt. he eventually purchased My screen name on YIM and contacted Me there asking for blackmail fetish that was REAL. michael claims to have researched many other women and found them lacking when it comes to actually outing people who fucked up on their contracts. Funny, you’d think that after seeing My blog he’d KNOW I was the real deal…
We whipped him up a personal contract, as I do for all of My blackmail slaves. he was respectful at first, paid his tributes on time, paid a little extra here and there for Me to spend extra time on him – the way a good slave should be. I told him what I expected of him as a slave and he agreed, going so far as to say:
“Jan 27, 5:44:07 PM michael: I will always show you respect Princess if that is alright to call you Princess”
We agreed that his tributes would be due every other week and he signed the contract, giving Me access to all of his personal information. michael even completed his first assignment, which was to buy one of My clips I thought he’d enjoy from clips4sale. he loved it, btw…
Fear is Just Another Word for Excitement
Then things swiftly went downhill… michael started to push the boundaries, as most blackmail fetish wannabe slaves do… he started trying to tell Me what I was and was not allowed to do with his information. Then he started becoming belligerent, disrespectful, and bossy, which is something I DO NOT tolerate… michael dared Me to do something. Just to give him a taste, to prove I was ‘real.’ So I sent an email to the email he and his wife share.
Needless to say, michael didn’t appreciate that. But I figured hey – it was just a taste, right? So I gave him enough warning to delete the email before his wife saw anything. Then the little bitch started playing top-from-the-bottom games, saying shit like “You may go,” and “Don’t do anything you’ll regret.” So I tell him to go to bed and I’ll decide on his punishment in the morning. I wake up all pissed off and ready to REALLY sock it to him, just to open My YIM to see this :
Jan 29, 6:11:09 AM michael: Princess I have made a big mistake I should not have disrespected you last night like I did but I felt part of me was scared to death and the other part wanted to see what else you could do. But after I signed out and went to bed I going stop thinking that this is real and that you could really hurt me and everything I love. I didn’t sleep hardly at all last night tossing and turning worrying please don’t do anything I am begging you. Please princess don’t do anything to me I was a fool and I realize that.
“Test Me… I dare you…”
I, of course, told him where he could stick his apology… unless he paid a recompense fee. The loser finally saw things My way and things went smoothly for another couple days. There was a little bit of ‘flirting with danger’ on his part when he sent Me the login to his craigslist account and a few humiliating pics, but other than that things were pretty uneventful.
So then, of course, as all of the blackmail fetish freaks do, he wants to go deeper. What can I say? I’m addictive as fuck! So he pays more, sends more info and more pics, and basically digs that hole about as deep as it can go. Then he starts pressing buttons again… Accusing Me of being ‘scared’ of him and shit. Let’s get this straight – you are coming to Me for a fetish. I have every documentation proving that you came to Me for this. There is NO WAY that you can win against Me. I have NOTHING to fear from you…
So for his fuckup, I log in and type up an ad. It is a modification of an ad that he has posted in the past, which I also have screencaps of in case he thinks he can block Me out of his account…
The loser, of course, SWEARS that they were not made by him! It was all posted as a ‘joke’ from ‘some other person,’ even though he SWEARS he’s never cheated on Me… Yeah, uh huh…
So I finish writing up the craigslist post and then I get the email saying that I have to verify with a text code in order to post the ad and the dumbfuck GIVES it to Me LOL! So I post this craigslist ad here:
And post about it on Twitter, because why the fuck not? The blackmail slave is now bringing it on himself so CLEARLY he loves it lol and I’m having fun and getting all kinds of publicity for it xD you stupid dumb bastard, do you REALLY think you’re being sneaky? I can see right through you, because I’ve dealt with thousands of you in My lifetime already… And I’ll deal with THOUSANDS more before I retire to My grave…
But the REAL reason you’re here, freako, is because you didn’t pay your blackmail Mistress yesterday when your tribute was due… So now, you get to suffer… I can’t WAIT to see how many texts you get LOL! And just so you know, standard rates apply – $50 per each pic you want removed and $10 per each line of info. I warned you, freak…
My good pets will have noted a slight absence in my online presence during the end of last year. I suffered a personal tragedy and took some time to Myself, but I’m back now and have plenty of fun planned for the next year, including new addictive clips and even whole new websites where you can worship your Goddess! These projects may still be a few months off, but I’m definitely working My sexy ass off on some hot new fetish content for you freaks. you can thank Me now…
But first, here’s what I’ve been doing to My freaks lately…
My little dingbat loser has been toeing the blackmail fantasy line lately… he got SUPER drunk last year and sent Me around $3,000 in one night, followed by a TON of blackmail information, hilarious pics, information about himself, and a custom clip order. he was late on getting Me My Christmas present this year, but it finally arrived and I got some HOT fucking pics!
he’s a cheap little loser and I drain him every chance I get, so he only had enough for one pair of boots, but they are fucking HOT! They are sexy black and red patent leather thigh high boots that show off my shapely, sexy legs and ass.
I’ve also been playing a lot with sissy fag-cash loser james… I’m sure you remember his pathetic need to serve Me… Well, while I was taking My personal time, he did nothing but message Me non stop LOL! After I came back, I decided to make him wait a bit longer, just because 1. I love seeing you freaks sweat and 2. I don’t NEED the money LOL! When I finally did a session with him, the internet went crazy over this pic that I posted on My Twitter of Me teasing him with My big toy… Even got another loser reeled in from this very pic… Can you resist it?
Because of all the hype and excitement I cause in little loser james’ panties, he told Me a ‘big secret’ he’s been keeping… he’s been trying to be a ‘bull master’ to raise money for Me on the side LOL!
Ok, I’ve had some seriously pathetic faggot losers worship Me in the past… But those who worship the fag who worships ME!? That has GOT to be the lowest of the low LOL! james told Me that he finally found a ‘dominant daddy’ to empty a condom full of cum into his sissy fag mouth for $20 on cam for Me! I can’t wait to see it happen, and hopefully I’ll be able to record it and sell it here for the rest of My cuckold freaks to enjoy… ;3
Lastly, I got THIS sexy beast of a steel boned corset… I LOVE the way it accentuates My wasp-like sexy thin waist and curvy tits and hips. Gotta love how I rock that hourglass figure! And the way the choker has those cute little strips of leather which accentuate My cleavage even more… Mmmm… I can hear the wallets opening already….
So, freak, tomorrow is Thanksgiving, and that means that it’s time to list all of the things for which you should be thankful. Number 1 on your list should be, of course, the fact that you are able to have Me in your life by serving Me in whatever way I see fit. One of My slaves, code name “pay pork,” had been fucking around a bit lately and not quite appreciating just how lucky he is to have Me in his life. He had been serving Dom Mal as well (My best friend, metamor, roommate, and partner in crime lol!) and She helped him to realize just how fortunate he is to be allowed to serve Me. This past week, My pay pork sent Me a heartfelt apology for his past behavior over the past few months. he cleaned himself up, put on a suit (a far cry from the majority of pics that I’ve received of him naked on his knees sucking tranny cock LOL!) and sent Me this:
Dear Perfect Princess Kiara,
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One of the worst things that can happen to a person is to have the truth before his very eyes and refuse to accept it. I was born with the mind (and cock) of a beta loser; weak and ignorant. I used to think women were inferior and dumb because I was insecure about all of my shortcomings. I thought and acted this way to hide my insecurities. For several years, I have lived aimlessly in this state of ignorance. Since I the first time I laid eyes on you, I knew you were visual perfection. But I did not know, what caliber of individual i was dealing with. I thought I would use you and get you naked for me and I would jerk off and own you because I actually thought I was better than you (go ahead, laugh out loud, only a fucktard is capable of this).
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Instantly, you ran circles around me with your superior mind. Time and again you have proven to be several steps ahead of me in life and it feels like you are not even trying. I was owned and there was nothing I could do to get out of it–check mate for Princess Kiara. I was overwhelmed by this crushing defeat and you rejoiced in having bested and owned another idiot who was shallow enough to underestimate you. The true irony of all of this, is that for being the loser mysognist that I was, was beaten and owned by a superior woman (the object of his ignorance). You took it upon yourself to teach me my place–that of a lowly blackmail, cocksucking beta pay-pig loser. You taught me to love my punishment and I tried to run away. Now, thanks to the teaching of my Master Malvasia, I realize that I’m more fucked than ever and the two of you have known all along.
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Because I was still ignorant of all of the lessons you taught me, I tried to run from you and keep the illusion of my privileged position as a respectable man. You were patient with me and I made a fool of myself (yet again). I tried to pretend that I didn’t need you and that I could leave you when I wanted. You saw right through that farce. That was a HUGE mistake. I’m sorry. The writing was before my eyes and I didn’t want to admit it.
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I told you that I needed to distance myself from you and God Mal, but the truth is, I never relapsed. Even when I was seeing my EX-therapist, I was lying to her face about working on my addictions. I was masturbating to You and Mal every night. This is the first time I am admitting this. The truth is coming out and God Mal, my new Master and owner of my mind is helping with this process. I just want to note how AMAZING she is to have given me this opportunity to apologize to you.
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I am completely sorry for having avoided you–the TRUTH of my life. I hope that you can find it in you to forgive me. I dressed up for work in my suit to show you another side of me–one that shows respect for your perfection. One of the pics has the truth that was before my eyes and that I refused to see. Apologies that the writing turned out backwards, but we all know what it is. Thank you for everything my Princess; you mean everything to me and I am happy to be the dross on your boot.
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Your humble servant,
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“pay pork”
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Damn! I was so ready to bust his balls for that typed-up message being backward, but he had to go and apologize prematurely! It’s fine, I’m sure he does a LOT of things prematurely LOL! I fixed the image for him (aren’t I wonderful?) so that I could post it here for you to see:
Side note: I TOTALLY laughed out loud when he said he thought he was better than Me and thought he could use Me to get naked and jerk to… LOL! Are you for real!? xD But at least he’s learned his place in the world now… Under ME. My little pay pork even took it upon himself to go to My Clipvia and buy My Financial Domination Brainwash clip and has been listening to it for almost 12 hours straight like a good little pay pork puppet… I feel that his transformation is coming along nicely, just as planned…
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This next freak has less to be thankful for… I mean, at least pay pork has realized how wrong he was. This one has a ways to go still… he emailed Me begging for blackmail fetish and then didn’t pay, as per the usual, thinking that he could get away with such stupidity… So here are his his information. As usual, since this is a first offense, his tribute to take down the pics are only $50 each and the information can be removed for just $10 per line.
Name: Andreas Schultze Born: 08.10.1975
Location: Frohnhäuserstr. 13 Germany Hessen LDKcar; Opel Corsa C ….BabyBlueAge: 39
secrets: i wear diapers like a stupid child and i feel me self like a little schoolboy in diapers , …..really. im a passive devot bi Loser Faggot, i like fucked by boys mans, i like work as real forced blackmailed whore slave funtoy
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his English leaves something to be desired, but he isn’t a native speaker, and his English is admittedly far better than My Dutch, so we’ll let it slide. There were TONS more pictures on the websites he gave Me, but I didn’t want to pollute My blog with such a nasty, panty wearing loser freak LOL! By the dates listed on the pictures, this freak has been at it for a good long time… I’m sure once he sees all of his information and images here then he will happily turn over his fag cash like a good little pay slut…
That’s it for this time, freaks. Be sure to be thankful for the joys in your life (mostly Me, I’m sure) and continue to serve your Goddess like the good little puppets that you are! Until next time… ;3
