Just want to say that this blog was originally inspired by the lovely piece by Princess Ceara Lynch. If you didn’t read Her blog, go do it now. – Service vs. Consumption by Princess Ceara Lynch

It’s so fucking frustrating when guys contact Me and beg to serve, then tell Me HOW they WANT to serve. That. Is not. Servitude. Servitude is when you do something for ME to make MY life easier, better in some way, etc. What some of you try to do is simply tell Me what you want Me to do in order to get your little loser dick to spray some nasty cummies so that you can get on with your life. What about that screams serving Me?

What that above scenario is called would be you paying Me for a service. Do I offer certain services for cash? Yes. Can you PAY for certain things from Me? Yes. Does that make you My slave? My pet? Fuck no! I have blocked more ‘paying boys’ than I can count because they think that telling Me what their fetish is and spanking it on cam makes them My slave.

I DO have relationships with some of My slaves. My actual slaves, I mean. Not the ‘clients,’ or what Princess Ceara calls ‘customers.’ Not those of you who buy a session every once in a while, purchase clips, or even the ones who want Me to ‘tease’ your money out of you. you are, as I said, a ‘client.’ However, I really do enjoy the relationship aspect I have with the slaves who actually serve Me and know what it means to do so.

I also do share a couple of the fetishes that I indulge in. I was always under the impression that if you’re good at something, get paid for it. And of course there’s the old adage – love what you do and you’ll never work a day in your life, and that’s really how I feel. Then again, I wouldn’t say that My ‘livelihood depends on it,’ either. Boyfriend has a great job and really I don’t NEED the money I get from you losers lol. I just love money, plain and simple. Not saying that Princess Ceara’s way of thinking is ‘wrong’ by any means – really whatever makes you happy and makes you money! It’s just a difference of opinion.

So what DOES it take to ACTUALLY become My slave and serve Me properly? Quite a lot, actually. A good start is to tribute – and I do hope you appreciate the difference that Princess Ceara so CLEARLY laid out between a transaction (paying for clips/assignments/sessions/etc) and a tribute (sending Me money/gifts because you know that I deserve them and you want to make ME, NOT you, happy, and with NO sense of entitlement attached to the tribute or gift). you have the potential to become a real, serving slave and have a relationship with your Princess. But while money is probably My favorite thing in the world, it’s not the only thing that matters in a slave.

you will work your ass off to make Me happy. Simple as that. you will obey ALL of My commands to the best of your ability, and you WILL suffer for Me – be it for My amusement, My lifestyle, or in the simple realization that you are NOT entitled to My time. My life doesn’t revolve around you. 90% of My life is spent without even THINKING about you! But in suffering for Me and realizing that you are unworthy, you will come to feel so rewarded by the time I do spend with you, and then you can call yourself a true slave. When your enjoyment hinges on making ME happy, then you can call yourself Owned by Me.