There have been plenty of discussions about financial servitude, financial domination, money slavery, wallet raping, etc. your Mistress is going to shed some light on the subject and let you in on how it works from the view of a financial fetishist.
I consider a financial Dom/me someone who actually gets sexually aroused by the idea of the sub in question tributing. I must say that this is Me. It took a while to get used to this! Imagine if you will in a capitalistic society finding yourself physically and mentally aroused by the fact that someone is giving you their hard earned money and expecting/receiving nothing in return. I must admit, I felt DIRTY – like there was something wrong with Me.
And I ask some of the subs here – is that any different than how you yourself felt when you first started to explore your kinky and submissive side? Were you not awkward and unsure and even scared or disgusted by your thoughts and desires?
Now that I’ve come to terms with My desires and allowed them to be incorporated into My Mistress lifestyle, I see financial Domination as the ultimate sacrifice. Many of My fetishes require My slaves and submissives to sacrifice their body. Some even require the sacrifice of their minds. But scars heal, memories fade. However, debt and financial issues are always oh so close at hand. To know that My financial slaves make that sacrifice to make Me happy sends shivers down My spine. To see My slaves putting their Mistress before themselves is always a thrill, and it’s the way it should be!
Money will always be power in this capitalistic society. Domme/sub relationships will always be about a power exchange. My subs relinquish their power to Me, their Dominant Mistress, and we both get enjoyment out of it. So it is a natural desire to want to tribute a Mistress, to exchange the symbol of power from yourself to your Goddess. Just as it is a natural desire for Me as the Financial Mistress to crave this servitude.
While many who claim to be financially dominant (often referred to as ‘Insta dommes’) say that there is nothing that the slaves gets in return from financial domination, this is false. As in any other type of fetish Dom/sub relationship, I give My time, My control, My Dominance, My sincerity, and I allow My financial slaves just a glimpse into My world. For that I, and My financial slaves, feel that there is no possible way that they could pay Me back. No matter how many gifts or tributes they send, no matter how many jobs they get, they could never make a dent in their debt to their Goddess.
My financial slaves love to give Me tribute. I have several serving Me right now, and they literally beg Me to allow them to tribute. They seem just as awkward as I did 4 years ago. They ask ‘is it ok if I tribute you?’ as if they would offend Me. I have to explain to them that it is a fetish for Me as well, and we both get off on it together.
The more experienced ones tell Me why they tribute. First of all, they know that I am deserving as their Mistress. They want Me to live the life of the Goddess that I am. They know that the purpose of a slave, financial or otherwise, is to make the life of their Mistress easier and more enjoyable. Even though I do not NEED the tributes, gifts, money, etc, they know that it makes Me happy, and that is the goal of My financial slaves. They want just for a moment for the smile on My face to be because of something that they did correctly.
I do hope that this puts it a bit more into perspective for those here who don’t quite understand what’s going on in a financial D/s relationship.
