Where has your femdom Mistress, Kiara, been? I’ve been around. Not much has happened, really. I’m still here, still draining & training submissive pets lol. Honestly, My life is Perfect, and it doesn’t really involve you 😛 but you can still try to impress Me and maybe I’ll think of you while I’m relaxing and living the life of the Queen I am.
Mistress has decided that I don’t need to be held down by stupid things like fetish blogging schedules. Let’s be honest, are you even here to read these? Or are you just over there jerking it to My femdom pics and clips? So fuck it – Mistress will update when I feel like it or when I have something big to share. Deal with it lmao!
Don’t worry – I’ll still be sticking to My login schedule and trying to release clips once every other week or so. you’ll still have femdom content from Me for your spank bank and will be able to setup fetish sessions with your Mistress.
I’m sure most of you already know this, but your Mistress is an officially published author! I use the pen name Ryder O. Cox and write spicy, steamy, and extra sexy erotic fiction. I’ve written four books,one of which is completely free! That one’s called Practice Makes Perfect, and it’s about cross dressing, so I know some of you are gonna LOVE it!
In case you didn’t notice, things are looking great for the coming year! In 2020, I made over 6 figures with Domination as My only source of income, and there’s no WAY I’m stopping in 2021! I know things were a bit concerning with the SISEA bill, but thanks to the ‘lame duck’ period, it has been thrown out. It’s not QUITE a victory, since they could just easily reintroduce the bill (or a similar one), but at least it’s no longer an imminent threat!
New Year, New Layout
Just a quick and easy layout change to the site which SHOULD help it look and function better on tablet and mobile devices. Be sure to let Me know if anything looks off, or if there’s anything I can do to change the site which will make it easier for you to use on your device! With so many platforms going the way of Tumblr (like Instagram has recently done), I want this website to be as useful as possible!
Happy December! I hope that you all had a very lovely socially distanced Turkey Day. I don’t have anything big to share because I was a bit under the weather in November, and it’s unfortunately hanging on into the beginning of December as well.
Due to My being sick, I haven’t been updating as much as I would like, so I’m running a huge sale on My LoyalFansStars! I set 12 spots for 50% off! This is the biggest sale I’ve ever run, and they’re going fast (at the time of posting this, 3 have already been claimed!) so get them while you can. Happy Yule!
Communicate With your Domme/Mistress!
So instead of My normal ‘here’s what’s been going on with Me’ blog, I’d like to address a topic that is very important to Me – communication in femdom and fetish play. This is on the forefront of my mind because, as you may have noticed, all of My NiteFlirt goodies are missing. This happened due to a sub’s inability to communicate. I won’t go into details, but basically he couldn’t express what he wanted in our femdom relationship and got angry when I didn’t provide the service exactly as he wanted it. I’m in the process of re-uploading all of My content to Niteflirt, but it is all still available on My other platforms.
…but this could have very easily have been prevented with communication.
If you are familiar with My shop page, then you will see that one of the categories of content is ‘required purchases.’ I have posted so often about My continued and ever-growing success as a Domme. I have been around since 2005, 15 years at the time of writing this blog. These are ‘required’ because they help immensely with, you guessed it, communication. My Fetish Checklist gives Me an idea of your likes, dislikes, and limits, whereas the Rules and How to Approach a Goddess documents give you a better idea of how to (and NOT to) communicate with Me as your potential Domme.
It’s October, which has always been My favorite month. Obviously I’m a goth girl at heart and I just LOVE dressing up and doing fun makeup for Halloween! But being a Pagan, there’s also Samhain to look forward to! I’ll do a more in-depth blog about the Witch’s New Year later I’m sure. But I also love the milder temperatures, not needing to run the air conditioner, snuggling up with blankets, wearing longer dresses and hoodies, pretty much just everything about Autumn is great! But this Autumn is particularly Amazing so far!
First off, happy Locktober to all My chastity subs! For anyone who has the Qiui “Cellmate” chastity device, I made an account so that I can better control that little ‘distraction’ of yours during My favorite month. Locking fee (complete with locking ceremony cam session) is $50. Weekly payments can be discussed after that. Are you brave enough to try…?
So I’m not big on competition. Which isn’t to say that I’m not COMPETITIVE; in fact, therein lies the problem… When I compete for something, I feel this overwhelming NEED to win! I get SUPER invested in giving 120% and doing as well as I possibly can. I LOVE being proud of Myself since I know I’m the best Me that I can be.
Another month has come and gone and your Goddess is still kicking ass and taking blackmail information… In fact, I have room for two more blackmail bitches in My stable as of this week! I had two scared little bitches buy out of their blackmail contracts. Sad to see them go, but good news for those I’ve had to turn away while My stable was full! Think you can handle it? Click here to learn how to begin your real blackmail fetish journey now!
Stickers for Sale
Isn’t this pic of My thic, curvy ass in a thong soooo hot!? I bet you want to look at it every day, don’t you? Well good news, because now you can! I bought a sticker printer, which means I am now offering printed stickers for sale that I will mail right to your house, place of work, PO Box, anywhere you like! Price is $5 plus shipping & handling. And quick reminder – I don’t blackmail anyone who doesn’t explicitly request blackmail and then also sign and pay the agreement fee for their individualize blackmail contract.
After many years in the making, the financial domination addiction rehabilitation 12 step program is finally complete! Step 12 is the most intense, and you MUST have completed steps 1-11 before you see step 12, which is why step 12 is more expensive than the others. This is step 12 of My financial domination addiction rehabilitation program. I’ve created this 12 step program to help rehabilitate you and help you completely recover from your addiction to financial domination. Be sure that you have finished steps 1 – 11 completely before attempting to take on this final and most important step…
It isn’t healthy to try to finish them all in one evening. This is a process, and it will take time. But your Mistress will be here to support you and guide you through this difficult addiction.
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I’ve shot WAY up the rankings on LoyalFans Stars, so I’m running a 25% off sale this month! Now through the end of August, get 25% off a month-long subscription to My page! you don’t want to miss this – sub now! All subs get 15% off on IWC every month, plus tons of sexy pics and clips for free that aren’t available ANYwhere else! I’m also throwing in a free honest dick rating for all new subscribers! Send Me your best dick pic and I’ll let you know what I think of it. What are you waiting for? I SAID go Sub NOW!!!
Speaking of My unimaginable success, I had another record-breaking month in July! $12859 gross, which was $32.46 more than I made in June (My previous record-breaking month!) I included a graphic of My income averages by weekday, as well as what percentage of My income comes from which fetishes that I enjoy. Have I mentioned that I LOVE spreadsheets and charts? LOL!
Sex Worker Tips
Due to the popularity of My posts about My success the past couple months, I’ve decided to start a YouTube channel called Sex Worker Tips. I will be releasing videos for My fellow sex workers and giving them the knowledge that I have gained and My tips, tricks, and tutorials for things which I feel lead to My success. Check out the first episode above, and be sure to follow @SexWorkerTips on Twitter as well as subscribe to the YouTube channel! If you have some tips you’d like to offer, or if you have some questions about sex work that you want answered, feel free to drop Me a message!
New Pictures & Clips
That’s it for now, pets. I also updated My gallery this month with all My hot new free femdom pictures for you to worship! But remember to pay your cum tax if you make a little mess… LOL! In addition to the clip above, I’ve also added SIX other new clips, one of which has already skyrocketed up the best seller list! Buy them ALL via the links below, or send Me a message to let Me know what is your preferred payment processor!
Have you found yourself coveting giant breasts? Pining after them, longing for them, becoming more and more obsessed with them? Then this curse is for you!
When you watch this clip, you are agreeing to be hexed by Me. This curse will cause you to prematurely ejaculate in your pants whenever you encounter large breasts. The bigger the tits, the faster you shoot your load LOL! Think you can handle it..,? It’s only $200 for the curse removal fee….
you already stroke to Me frequently… But this clip will brainwash you into an even bigger jerk off addict for Me! This 20 minute clip includes post hypnotic suggestions and some very entrancing special effects as well. Binaural beats, subliminal messaging, induced paralysis – I’ve pulled out ALL the stops for this mindfuck clip! Buy it now!
Magick is all about manifestation. In this clip, I manifest the fact that your tiny little pindick is shrinking… Even now… Watch as I cast the magick circle, then call in the powers that be to cause you to become even smaller than you already are! SPH lovers, sissy bitch boys, this is a MUST!
The last curse wasn’t enough or you, was it? you wanted to be punished for craving giant breasts, so I did exactly that. Now you want more… you want to be fucked over for encountering and lusting after sexy, thicc asses too!
When you watch this clip, you are agreeing to be hexed by Me. This curse will cause you to be blue balled whenever you encounter a large, thic, curvy ass. The bigger the ass, the longer your blue balls last LOL! Think you can handle it..? It’s only $200 for the curse removal fee….
your eyebrows are one of the most telling features when it comes to makeup. They are one of the most expressive features on your face, so you don’t want to fuck them up, sissy bitch. There are SO many BAD eyebrows out there, and even more who just don’t do ANYthing with them. This video will show you how to draw on your eyebrows like a pro!
As requested by one of My good pets, I made this clip of Me showing off all the rings I wear every day. I seductively show off each ring, silently allowing you to gaze at My sexy, long fingers the whole time. Enjoy… (7 min clip)