Communication is Key in Femdom & Fetish Play…
Happy December! I hope that you all had a very lovely socially distanced Turkey Day. I don’t have anything big to share because I was a bit under the weather in November, and it’s unfortunately hanging on into the beginning of December as well.
LoyalFans Stars 50% off Sale!
Due to My being sick, I haven’t been updating as much as I would like, so I’m running a huge sale on My LoyalFansStars! I set 12 spots for 50% off! This is the biggest sale I’ve ever run, and they’re going fast (at the time of posting this, 3 have already been claimed!) so get them while you can. Happy Yule!
Communicate With your Domme/Mistress!
So instead of My normal ‘here’s what’s been going on with Me’ blog, I’d like to address a topic that is very important to Me – communication in femdom and fetish play. This is on the forefront of my mind because, as you may have noticed, all of My NiteFlirt goodies are missing. This happened due to a sub’s inability to communicate. I won’t go into details, but basically he couldn’t express what he wanted in our femdom relationship and got angry when I didn’t provide the service exactly as he wanted it. I’m in the process of re-uploading all of My content to Niteflirt, but it is all still available on My other platforms.
…but this could have very easily have been prevented with communication.
Required Purchases
If you are familiar with My shop page, then you will see that one of the categories of content is ‘required purchases.’ I have posted so often about My continued and ever-growing success as a Domme. I have been around since 2005, 15 years at the time of writing this blog. These are ‘required’ because they help immensely with, you guessed it, communication. My Fetish Checklist gives Me an idea of your likes, dislikes, and limits, whereas the Rules and How to Approach a Goddess documents give you a better idea of how to (and NOT to) communicate with Me as your potential Domme.
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Things Just Keep Getting Better!
Another month means it’s time for another update. So much happened last month and I can’t wait to share it with you all!
Samhain Celebration
First off, October was amazing for so many reasons, not the least of which was My Samhain celebration! Due to covid (and the HUGE spike because of the EXTREMELY stupid decision to re-open the U of M campus), the ritual was smaller than it usually would have been. But it was all together just wonderful! We made personal offerings to our ancestors, and did a ceremony to help them cross over. Plus the leader made this great punch!
After the ritual and leaving our offerings, I then went home to do an extra powerful curse! The moon was full on Samhain, so this curse is gonna hit like a ton of bricks! I can’t wait for him to come crying to Me, begging Me to reverse it! And I REALLY can’t wait to get the clip edited and release it so the rest of you can ‘enjoy’ it too LOL!
More AMAZING News – First Public Nude!!!
It’s October, which has always been My favorite month. Obviously I’m a goth girl at heart and I just LOVE dressing up and doing fun makeup for Halloween! But being a Pagan, there’s also Samhain to look forward to! I’ll do a more in-depth blog about the Witch’s New Year later I’m sure. But I also love the milder temperatures, not needing to run the air conditioner, snuggling up with blankets, wearing longer dresses and hoodies, pretty much just everything about Autumn is great! But this Autumn is particularly Amazing so far!
Locktober
First off, happy Locktober to all My chastity subs! For anyone who has the Qiui “Cellmate” chastity device, I made an account so that I can better control that little ‘distraction’ of yours during My favorite month. Locking fee (complete with locking ceremony cam session) is $50. Weekly payments can be discussed after that. Are you brave enough to try…?
6th Place for Favorite Footwear Contest!
So I’m not big on competition. Which isn’t to say that I’m not COMPETITIVE; in fact, therein lies the problem… When I compete for something, I feel this overwhelming NEED to win! I get SUPER invested in giving 120% and doing as well as I possibly can. I LOVE being proud of Myself since I know I’m the best Me that I can be.
Fall is Starting out Pretty Great…
September is here, which means that fall has finally begun! And so far, things seem to be falling just the way I like them to… >:)
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